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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns!
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
All right.
Let me introduce...
- today's guests. - Yes.
- Kim Jong Seo! - Hello.
Jo Kwon!
(The well rounded entertainer, Jo Kwon)
Hye Jeong and Chan Mi.
Welcome.
Someone said he saw you in a club.
- In a club? - Yes.
It's more like a music pub. I perform in pubs.
Back in 1990s, I used to perform a lot in pubs.
- You did. - I know.
But these days I worry about how many people will come see me...
perform, even though I shouldn't care about it.
I wanted to remember how I felt...
when I first began my career as a singer.
- You wanted to capture the feeling. - So I titled my song "Home".
I'm going to continue regardless of how many people come see me.
- Let's hear from Jo Kwon. - Okay.
My solo album will be coming out soon.
Last year,
I experienced love and the emotions that come with it.
- Wow! - Jo Kwon was in love.
I also went through a breakup...
and I was hurt as well.
So I turned my experiences into a song.
Let's hear it.
(We can't wait!)
It's called, "Crosswalk".
("Crosswalk" by Jo Kwon)
(Everyone is sympathising with the song...)
(because of the sad lyrics.)
(His love was painful but it helped him to write a beautiful song.)
- I'll stop here. - That was great.
(He's amazing.)
I heard you formed a band called AOA Cream.
- Yes. - Hye Jeong, Chan Mi and...
- Yu Na. - Yu Na.
- Please show us. - Okay.
(Please show us.)
("I'm Jelly Baby" by AOA Cream)
(The song has a catchy melody and dance.)
(They are sweeter than cream.)
(This dance is the highlight of the choreography.)
(Thank you.)
Last week, "Lazybones"...
won for the second time.
What did people say?
They said that they loved it.
My daughter must have felt sorry.
- She bought me clothes. - Did she?
She used to make me carry her baby while shopping.
But she didn't this time.
She was carrying her baby.
So I just had to carry my handbag.
And I thought, "This must be what being on TV does to you."
It was a great feeling.
- Congratulations. - Congratulations.
Let's see if they'll win for the third time today.
- The winner will be... - They will be...
- given a 1,000 dollar voucher. - All right.
We have three worries today too.
Let's take a look.
- "Car Enthusiast". - "Car Enthusiast".
"Two faced Husband".
- "Can I Return My Wife?" - Wow.
- This one is interesting. - The last one.
Why are you so excited?
"Can I Return My Wife?"
I'm in my 40s and I've been married for 15 years.
My wife is an addict.
Whether it is a blouse, jumpers, pants,
underwear, bracelets or shoes,
she purchases them all.
Some days, 5 or 6 items are delivered to our door.
- Wow. - Gosh.
Are you wondering if I'm worried because my wife is a shopaholic?
Shopping is not the only thing she's addicted to.
She's addicted to returning things as well.
(She is addicted to returning things?)
- My wife is on the phone every day. - He's honest.
"Hello, I bought a black blouse from you,"
"but I'm afraid I have to return it."
"This blouse is too black for my taste."
- "I can't wear it." - But it's black.
- "I can't wear it." - It's supposed to be black.
"Hello? I'd like to return the blankets I bought."
"These blankets are not comfortable to sleep in."
"Hello. I'd like to return hiking shoes."
"I just don't like them."
"Please give me a refund."
She returns just about everything she buys.
It almost seems like she buys things just so that she can return them.
She doesn't only do this with online purchases.
One day, we went to eat a burger.
"Excuse me. I'd like to get a refund for this cheeseburger."
"Is there any problem, Ma'am?"
"Do you expect me to eat this?"
"This cheese hasn't melted properly."
"I can't eat this. Please give me a refund."
Does she like soft cheese?
"Why are you returning products with no reason?"
"You need to stop."
"Excuse me? I have done nothing wrong."
She is crying?
(You hurt my feelings.)
My wife is addicted to shopping.
No, she is addicted to returning products.
Would someone please help me?
(Please help me.)
Jong Seo, you strike me as someone who shops a lot.
- I don't go out much. - I see.
So I do most of my shopping through home shopping.
You do?
- What did you buy recently? - Duvets are very cheap these days.
(Duvets are very cheap.)
- Have you returned anything? - No.
- I'm not good at returning things. - Oh, you are not?
The process of returning an item is complicated.
It involves a lot of work.
So, a wife who purchases something then returns it.
Let's meet her husband in person.
Please come on out.
(Who is the wife who purchases something then asks for a refund?)
(Gong Yong Woon)
(Walking down)
He is walking down the slide.
How often does your wife shop and return items?
You said that she is addicted to getting refunds.
If she buys 5 or 6 products a day, about half of them...
- She returns half of them? - That's right.
When did this start?
It must have been soon after we got married.
- How long have you been married? - Well,
this is our 15th year together.
She has been shopping and returning products...
- for 15 years. - How many items has she returned?
When we were newly weds, she once travelled from Yangsan to Busan.
How long is the trip?
- It takes about an hour by car. - An hour by car.
She went all the way there...
to return one item of clothing.
- Your wife is like that. - That's what I am saying.
Does she really return products she has used?
This is an embarrassing story.
Even though the children had used the duvet...
for two days,
she returned it and asked for a refund.
- We had already used the duvet. - I couldn't believe it.
What did she say?
- They wouldn't refund used items. - She insisted she didn't use it.
- She lied. - Yes, she lied.
- "I didn't use it." - I think she shops impulsively.
She shops impulsively.
She shops first and returns later. That's how her brain works.
When she purchases an item,
she is already thinking about returning it.
"I can always return it later."
If it's this bad, why didn't you talk to her?
You should have said something to your wife.
My wife cries easily.
- She does? - I can't say anything...
because she will start crying.
- You have a soft heart. - I do.
- Because you love her. - That's right.
I love her so much.
If you can't talk to your wife because you're afraid of hurting...
her feelings, how did you convince yourself to come on our show?
I am desperate.
I would really like to fix this bad habit of hers.
Did your wife readily agree to appear on the show?
She didn't readily agree. Because her image will be tainted,
- she worried a lot. - She must have worried a lot.
I don't know how she made up her mind.
- All right. Let's talk to his wife. - Yes, let's do that.
- Okay. - Hello.
(Who is the wife who purchases items and returns them?)
Why do you return items so often?
It doesn't make sense...
to hold on to something I won't use.
- Don't buy it in the first place. - That's what you should do.
I change my mind only after receiving the item.
You should buy things after careful consideration.
I do shop with prudence.
I buy an item after hours of deliberation.
Even now, there are about 20 items on my shopping list.
- She still has 20 items to buy. - Even if I buy them...
after much deliberation,
I realise when I get them...
that I need to return about half of them.
(There are so many products to return.)
I just feel differently when I receive the items.
Isn't it bothersome...
to return items all the time?
It's not bothersome.
It's natural to go through procedures to return an item.
She doesn't find it bothersome.
- No. - You returned a black blouse...
- because it was too black. - What a ridiculous reason.
I guess it was a bit ridiculous.
I ordered a black blouse in the summer.
But since it was completely black, it looked too hot.
- It was completely black... - Was it this colour?
It didn't fit the season.
- Completely black? - It was darker than that.
- There are many shades of black. - I didn't know.
- Why don't you point it out? - Please show us.
- What is the colour? - This one.
(I found it.)
It was the same shade as the cameraman's hat.
- Doesn't it look different? - It's faded black.
- It is...
but it's not a nice colour for summer.
- So that was the colour. - Yes.
What about the burger?
Why did you complain about the cheese in the burger?
- You said it was too fresh. - I like cheeseburgers.
Cheese should melt a bit on the patty.
But the slice I got was still hard and had visible edges.
- It didn't melt? - No.
- It wasn't melted? - No.
The slice was solid and hard.
I always have a good reason for returning things.
(What an impressive reason.)
I still don't think you should have returned a used item.
- You returned a duvet. - The children's duvet.
When the duvet arrived,
I didn't like it at first glance.
But the family insisted that we try using it,
so we used it.
- I see. - I didn't remove the tag.
Just in case.
It was neither comfortable nor soft.
The duvet didn't hug the bed tightly enough.
It should slide down the bed.
One time, she bought hiking boots.
She spent a day and a half hiking.
- She wore the boots, right? - Yes, she did.
- We went hiking together. - She couldn't have returned them.
They wouldn't have agreed to give her a refund.
- She used them. - I know.
- She wore them. - With a wet towel,
- she cleaned the shoes. - What?
Then she returned them.
She cleaned the boots really well with a wet towel.
She is incredible.
- Is there another story? - It was my wife's birthday.
I gave her some money to buy something at a department store,
- and she bought a blue coat. - A blue coat.
Yes. She told me then that she liked it.
After three days,
it was gone.
- The blue coat was gone? - It was a birthday present from me.
- It was a birthday present. - I know.
- That hurt my feelings. - Of course.
- My feelings were hurt. - She wore the coat, right?
- Yes. - It was a birthday present...
- and you wore them for a few days. - Right.
Was the coat too blue?
No, the colour was beautiful.
But clothes like that...
go out of fashion quickly.
That's why I returned it.
- But it was a birthday present. - That's right.
The coat was meaningful because it was a birthday present.
- You shouldn't have returned it. - Getting the money back...
is better than not wearing the coat.
(From now on, I will give you money for your birthday present.)
Is there an item you have returned without your husband's knowledge?
- Tell us. - Underwear.
- Underwear? - Yes.
- You returned underwear? - How?
On the internet, I found a bra that supposedly...
- adds another cup size. - That's what I'm wearing.
So I bought it.
- It didn't add a cup size? - No.
- It was false advertisement. - It was too restricting...
and uncomfortable. So I decided to return it,
but it was during the summer.
It was wet from the sweat.
- It was wet from the sweat. - Okay.
- What? - That happens in summer.
(My goodness.)
To be honest, I felt bad.
I wondered if I shouldn't return it.
But it's only normal to return an item you aren't going to wear.
- That's going too far. - So I returned it...
the next day.
It didn't add an extra cup size.
Are you usually with your wife when she returns something?
When we go to a mart...
that we go often,
- the employees recognise her. - I see.
- They all know her. - She is on the blacklist.
- Is it that bad?
- Really? - Is she on their blacklist?
She asked me to return an item...
and get a refund by lying to them.
She asked me to lie and get a refund.
She asked me to do it.
If you are on the blacklist,
the employees must look at you with daggers in their eyes...
- I bet. - when you shop.
Whenever I passed by the shop...
In the past,
the ladies would say hi to me because I was a regular customer.
But once I returned an item,
they don't talk to me...
even if I go into the store.
Because they think I will return my purchases,
- they don't recommend new items. - My goodness.
There are a few stores like that.
- It's understandable. - Yes.
Is that your son and daughter sitting next to you?
Your mother's habit is a concern for your father.
Do you agree with him?
When my mum returns something,
she always says, "We didn't use it."
She lies and it makes me a bit ashamed of her.
- Were you there with her? - Yes.
You know,
I don't think it would be good for the children...
- to lie in front of them. - I agree.
That's part of the reason why I am here.
- What? - What do you mean?
- Are you feeling remorse? - Yes.
Even though I know what I do is wrong,
I can't stop.
- It's an addiction. - That's why I'm here.
I see.
You agreed to appear on the show...
- to fix your habit. - That's right.
Everyone will know who she is from today.
If she wants to return an item,
they will go, "You are that woman from Hello."
- Right. - "You were on Hello."
- They won't accept the items. - They will inspect them once more.
But since it was completely black, it looked too hot.
Even though I know what I do is wrong, I can't stop.
Has your mum ever returned your purchases?
My hair.
What? Your hair?
My hairstyle. I once got a perm.
- Okay. - I liked it.
But she didn't...
and cut my hair short.
I didn't like what she did.
She didn't like her son's hairstyle.
Why did you cut his hair...
when he liked the hairstyle?
If I see it every day,
I thought I would get annoyed at my son.
- So the hairstyle had to go. - My goodness.
She is unbelievable.
I fixed his hair...
- the very next day. - That's so funny.
You have listened to stories...
from your son and daughter.
How do they make you feel?
What I did was for my family.
By getting a refund our family gets the money back.
I developed this habit in my hope to be more frugal.
I once bought an item from a website.
When I went to another website,
the same item was being sold at a cheaper price.
Once I see something like that,
I can't forget about it.
Returning an item I have bought...
and purchasing another one at a lesser price helps the family.
Your wife says that she returns items...
- to be frugal for the family. - Yes.
But the shipping costs add up.
- I bet. - Per month,
she spends about 100 dollars on shipping items back.
- Really? - Yes. That's how much she spends.
- It makes sense. - She buys an item or two every day.
She should save on shipping costs and buy something else.
- I know. - Has she made you angry recently?
She made a credit card without my knowledge.
- A credit card? - Last year,
- Last year? - from January...
to December,
the amount she spent is about 12,000 dollars.
(That's how much she spent in a year behind his back?)
It amounted to that much.
- When I saw the statement, - 12,000 dollars?
- I was really surprised. - Why?
She shopped and returned the products.
- It was an endless cycle. - Shopping then refund.
She continuously repeated shopping and returning.
Why did you make a credit card without telling your husband?
Then purchase and return things?
He doesn't like using a credit card.
So we only have one credit card under his name.
When I purchase something with it, my husband gets a notification.
Whenever he gets a notification, he calls me up.
"You went to the grocery store. What did you buy?"
I hated that. I wanted to buy what I wanted.
But I've never bought designer brands with that card.
I only bought things we need in the house.
I returned things I didn't need, and I tried to be frugal.
I feel sad that he doesn't understand that.
(What are you talking about?)
She returned them all.
"Returned."
- "Cancelled." - "Cancelled" and "Returned."
- That's crazy. - It was 8 dollars and 90 cents.
And 7 dollars and 90 cents.
November 10. November 6.
- That's just in three days. - It all happened in three days.
- It's just 7 dollars and 90 cents. - Yes.
How much does it cost to return that?
- It coasts 5 dollars. - About 5 dollars.
- What? - How is that being frugal?
But if I am not wearing it, I get at least 2 dollars back.
You shouldn't buy it then.
- You shouldn't have bought it. - Oh my.
(Is that what frugal means?)
You can't handle what you don't like?
- No. It keeps... - But for the 15 years now you've...
been married to him, he must have...
done things you don't like.
There were things I didn't like, but I can't exchange him.
- What if you could? - There's nowhere to send him back.
- You could send him back home.
You could complain to your mother-in-law.
(She could complain to her mother-in-law and return him.)
- But... - Just wrap him up and send him.
- It looks like she... - 14 days have already passed.
- "14 days have already passed." - "14 days have already passed."
For a person, the return date extends to 14 years.
Still it's one year past the returned date.
(Should I be happy?)
- I didn't know. - Do they refund used items?
You have to open the package very carefully.
When you do that, you can return just about everything.
How do you...
Can you show us here?
Please show us how you do it.
We will open it and use it.
Please come on down.
(They are curious.)
I brought the tools I use.
- These are the tools you use? - Yes.
- You have specific tools? - Now,
for those of you who work for online shopping malls,
please pay close attention.
(We will examine how she successfully returns items.)
Please open it and then wear it.
I have to open the package. I have to open it carefully.
- You have to open it. - The kids aren't allowed to do it.
- The children aren't allowed? - I once damaged the plastic,
- and I couldn't get a refund. - The plastic...
- You damaged the plastic. - The plastic is important.
- You keep the plastic too. - I fold it in half...
- and keep it safely. - You don't throw it away.
- I don't throw away anything. - You fold it and keep it.
- Is that right? - You can't use any other plastic.
- You can't. So here it is. - Let's say you wore that.
- There's a tag inside. - There's a tag inside.
- You cut it carefully. - How?
I use a special tool, nipper.
- It's a professional tool. - You cut the end part.
Yes. You snip the end.
- You keep the end and the rest. - You have to...
- You have to treasure the tag. - keep that too?
If you damage this, you can never return an item.
You can't insist on a refund if you don't have it.
She said "You can't insist".
- So she insists. - That means she is forceful.
(You are the best at getting a refund.)
Fold it like this.
- Make the neck part dirty. - Try sweating now.
(He rolls on the floor.)
You can't return that.
- It's wrinkled now. - Can you return that?
If you iron it directly, it can get damaged.
- So you put a cloth on top. - You put a cloth on top.
Like this. You iron on top of the cloth.
- I'll iron the arms. - The arm.
Now I will fold it just like how it came in the package.
Just like how it came in the package.
- We saw how it came. - Yes.
- This is... - The shirt...
(She's very skilled.)
You do this.
- She folded it really well. - The tag is important.
She's now onto the tag.
- This is where the tag used to be. - You cut it.
- You put it where it was. - Yes, you put it where it was.
That's a lot of work.
You have to put the tag now.
- You hang it first. - Yes, I hang it first.
- You use the quick drying glue? - Yes.
(She's very focused.)
Put some on the tip.
(She puts glue on the cut surface.)
Now...
I match the two tips.
(She glue the two cut tips together.)
Why is she so focused?
I know. So I put in a lot of effort. Can you hand me that?
- What's this? - It's a quick drying spray.
- It dries the glue instantly. - It dries the glue instantly.
- Yes. - It dries the glue fast.
- Really? - There's a thing like that.
- She's an expert. - Like this,
- it's attached now. - It looks brand new now.
When you touch it, it falls.
But the seller normally doesn't open it up and check.
- They just check the tag. - They just check the tag.
So I just put it...
in the plastic bag.
The retailers should always check if there's glue...
on the tag.
When I put in the plastic like this and send it back,
I can get a refund if I pay for the shipping.
When you see a tag intact, you wouldn't open it.
- They don't check thoroughly. - They don't.
- Okay. - Yes.
By the way...
You shouldn't be clapping.
- It's not. - It's a bit unconscionable.
You know that it's not something you should be proud of, right?
- I'm not proud of it. - You feel guilty, right?
I feel sorry to the clerks,
and I feel sorry to the owners of the clothing shops I go to.
- They can get blamed. - This can happen.
Another person can buy the item you returned.
If there are damages done,
- they will suffer the loss. - Yes.
- In the near future... - Please return to your seat.
May I ask what you do for living?
I run a nail shop.
- A nail shop. - Yes.
Do you get upset when someone asks for a refund?
Of course.
- Are there customers like that? - There are.
There are people who get their nail polished and...
ask to change the colour the next day.
I get annoyed, but I do it for them.
So you know how annoying it is when someone asks for a return.
You must know the feeling better than anyone else. Why do you do it?
I know that it's a problem.
But this has now become a habit,
and I can't easily fix it.
- It became a habit. - Yes. It became a habit.
- She precisely knows the problem. - She knows.
- That's why she's here. - She wants to fix it.
There are treatments.
After this show is aired,
it will be much more uncomfortable for you to return things.
Will you be okay? You won't be able to return things now.
That's why I took a long time to decide to come out here.
After this, I won't be able to return things.
But I want to change my habit.
Now everyone will know who I am.
When I made the decision. I realised I will be criticised.
- She mustered up her courage. - I know.
- Let's... - Let's give it up for her.
(We applaud for her courage.)
Thank you.
It looks like she is willing to change.
- Yes. - Are your worries gone now?
Actually, what I'm worried about the most...
- is my two kids. - Your kids?
- What about them? - What about the kids?
The kids are learning from their mother's behaviour.
They buy things on impulse.
- They buy things on impulse? - Yes.
- They ask their mum to return them. - It's becoming a habit.
They purchase things without considering the cost.
(They learned this habit from their mother.)
What did you ask her to return?
A robot.
I bought it at a grocery store.
But when I checked online, I found out it was 3 dollars cheaper.
Right.
But do you buy things more easily...
because you think you can always return them?
Yes. I just buy everything.
- Because you can return them. - Yes.
Why do you think your mum keeps returning things?
She wants to buy designer brands.
But she can't afford them.
I think that's why she keeps buying and returning things.
When I grow up, I will buy her expensive things.
So I hope she will stop returning things.
- She's such a sweet daughter. - She's so sweet.
(She's a darling.)
Did you know about how your daughter was feeling?
No, it's my first time hearing this.
- Hearing that, how do you feel? - I think...
I need to change.
Yes. At least you are willing to change.
Lastly, please say something to her.
Is there anything you want to tell your wife?
I hope you will use this opportunity to change.
Please stop returning things...
and let's live a happy life together.
I love you, Honey.
(I love you, Honey.)
- He's so sweet. - He's sweet.
You can't return the birthday gifts he buys you.
- I won't forget that. - She can't return things now.
Dear retailers, don't refund anything she bought from you.
That was a public announcement.
All right. Let's vote.
I think it's something to worry about.
I am afraid that...
her children will learn from her example.
- She really has to change. - Right.
- She recognises her problem. - Yes.
It's a problem if she doesn't.
- So it's not a worry. - I think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry too.
And I hope she will receive a lot of votes,
which may shock her into changing faster.
(She needs to be shocked in order to change.)
If you think it's something to worry about,
please press the button.
(What do the audience think?)
- Please consider this carefully. - In 5, 4,
- You can't change your answer. - and 3, 2, 1.
Time is up.
Please say something to your family.
I will now start returning less things.
I usually return clothes a lot.
When I buy clothes, I will wash them right away...
so that I can't return them.
I will try hard to become a good mother.
- I love you, Honey. - That's sweet.
(I love you and thank you.)
And please say something to...
- the retailers. - Please say something to them.
I apologise to the owners of the clothing shops I often go to.
I won't do it anymore in the future. I am sorry.
(She promises that she won't do it anymore.)
"Can I Return My Wife?" Please reveal the result.
What's the last digit?
Please reveal the result.
I think they will win.
(Will she get 177 votes and become the winner?)
Come on.
Nice.
(Eliminated)
I hope you will change. Thank you.
(I will make sure to change.)
The title is "Two faced Husband".
"Hello. I am a housewife..."
"in her 30s who is living with the perfect husband."
"Anyone who's seen my husband..."
"says this."
"Gosh, your husband is so sweet. I am jealous of you."
"There is no husband like him."
They are right. There's no husband like him.
He hides his true self behind a mask perfectly.
He is a two faced husband?
(There's no husband like him. He is a two faced husband.)
When other people are around,
he says, "Stay seated. I'll do everything. Just relax."
"It's better for me to do it rather than my wife."
- He's the perfect husband. - However, at home...
my husband would say, "Stop bothering me!"
"Why can't you do it on your own?"
- That's a sudden change. - "You're so lazy!"
After pretending to be sweet in front of other people,
he changes dramatically when we are alone.
When he is with other people,
he video calls me.
"Honey, I called because I missed you."
However, when I call him, he says,
"What do you want? I'm busy."
- This is how he normally treats me. - Okay.
- What's wrong with him? - The real problem is...
that he often puts me in a difficult spot.
"Do you all remember that we have a company dinner tonight, right?"
"My wife told me to come home early tonight."
"I'm sorry, but I won't be able to join."
"I have to keep my wife happy."
After skipping his company dinner,
he drinks with his friend until three in the morning.
He came home so drunk that he couldn't walk.
My friends don't believe me.
They say, "No way."
- "Stop lying." - They don't believe her.
No one believes me.
I'm going to expose...
my husband's two faced personality.
So please believe me.
(Please believe me.)
Everyone hides their true self in public to a certain degree.
I'm sure some of you have felt the same about yourselves.
People think that I always act energetic.
However, I tone it down on TV shows...
and I'm usually worse when I'm with my friends having fun.
- You've been toning it down? - Really?
When I hang out with my friends or go clubbing with them,
- I can be unbearable. - Really?
- I want to see it. - I can't believe it.
- That's shocking. - Sometimes when...
I go out to eat with my children on weekends,
people notice me with my children. And they're usually looking at me...
- from far away. - Right.
I can sense that they're watching me.
I'm also watching them observing me.
- Then... - That's right.
Even though I shouldn't, I pretend to be happier.
"My sweet baby."
- I react to them watching me. - Also...
And my children start to worry about me.
- It sometimes happens. - Right.
Her husband acts like the perfect husband in front of other people,
but he acts so differently when he's alone with his wife.
It's a concern from his wife.
Let's invite the guest with the concern. Please come out!
(Who is the woman married to the two faced husband?)
(Ahn Sang Won)
Welcome!
(Stuck)
(I will just walk down.)
She's walking down the slide.
I thought I just saw the evolution of man.
Congratulations on your evolution.
(Congratulations on your evolution.)
Do you really think your husband has a two faced personality?
- When friends come to the house... - To your house?
there isn't a moment when he sits still.
- He does everything. - Do your friends...
My friends feel bad for him because he seems to be doing everything.
- They tell him to sit down. - Yes.
They say things like, "Tae Gyun, sit down and eat with us."
- When they say that... - His name is Tae Gyun?
- "Tae Gyun, come and eat." - Honey, are you here?
(He has the same name as her husband.)
- Long time no see. - I know.
When my friends tell him to come and eat,
he would reply, "I'll come down after finishing this."
Then he's the last person to eat.
- They must feel bad for him. - Right.
- That's what he does. - What about when they leave?
When they leave, he doesn't do a thing.
I have to do everything like set the table,
he eats and then leaves.
I don't think you can call this...
- as having two faced personality. - Everyone does that.
- Of course. - That's not too bad.
- It's not only that. - Okay.
- When I ask him to feed the kids... - Feed the kids?
I hear really loud noises coming...
from the kitchen as if he's throwing things.
Then he comes into the bedroom.
And he tells me that I am very lazy.
- He says things like that. - I see.
When that happens, it drives me crazy.
Let's talk to her husband as well and then decide who is...
- more problematic. - Okay.
Where is her husband?
- Hello. - Hello.
Your wife said...
you have a two faced personality.
Do you agree?
I don't think I have a split personality at all.
- See? - This always happens.
I'm a very ordinary person.
Our staff member told us that when he interviewed you before,
he said you claimed, "If I explain everything from my perspective,"
"the tables will turn."
You said we would take your side.
Did you really say that?
- Like you mentioned before, - Yes?
when I explain myself, I am worried that other people will...
- criticise my wife. - Is that so?
- He seems very considerate. - But...
- is this all an act? - It could be.
- Since people are watching him. - Right.
Are you saying that on purpose to appeal to the audience?
He's trying to look good.
That's what drives me crazy about him.
There are many people here, and the show will be aired as well.
That's why he's saying that.
(Who is telling the truth?)
(How will the battle between wife and husband end?)
Let's ask you some questions.
Why do you help her out when friends are around,
but do nothing when you're alone together?
You also get annoyed.
My wife exaggerated a little.
When we have guests at home,
there are many things you need to do and prepare.
There are things that require men to use their strength.
So I want to help out with those things.
If she's going to criticise me for helping her when we have guests...
There are actually husbands who don't help at all.
- Right. - They'll just sit down...
and tell their wives to prepare everything for their guests.
- Right. - There are people...
who don't help.
I do all of this to help my wife.
I don't do this for my image. My friends know me.
- He wanted to help his wife. - Right.
He's really convincing.
He should be the one with the concern.
Some people don't even help at all.
- But... - It's better than...
Isn't it better that he helps you out...
- rather than doing nothing? - How can you not understand her?
This is what makes it so upsetting.
People are going to comment on how lucky she is...
- when it's not true. - When she hears that?
Yes.
I'm most curious about...
the video calls when he is with other people.
- "I love you." - He pretends to be sweet.
Are you putting on an act for the people around you?
- Or not? - We should ask him that.
When it comes to video calls,
my wife sometimes calls me on video to show me...
what our children are up to.
I called her one time and she said, "Our baby is asleep. I have to go."
That's what she said.
If I simply hang up,
it would seem like I only called to see our baby.
So I said, "Why are you in a hurry to go? I missed you."
- I was trying to be nice. - Okay.
However, my wife only...
remembers the parts that hurt her.
- Goodness. - Wow.
- It's so hard to tell. - He sounds so convincing.
- He's the one with concerns. - He argues...
- almost like a lawyer. - I think so too.
He sounds very convincing.
I don't think we can judge...
who is right based on what these two are saying.
- Let's listen to a third person. - I agree.
- Is there any witnesses here? - Maybe their children?
Who is the person sitting next to him?
I'm Sang Won's best friend.
- Her best friend? - Her best friend.
She could be biased.
What do you think of her husband?
He treats her really well.
Once...
I am sorry.
- It's okay. - Be honest.
- Don't be sorry. - Tell us honestly.
Once we went on a trip together.
He barbecued the meat.
He also helped out with all the difficult tasks.
He took care of the children.
He is a gentleman.
On the other hand, my friend has a strong personality.
Sometimes her words can hurt people.
When I see her husband smiling and trying to smooth things over,
- I feel that she is very lucky. - Look at him smile.
Look at the expression on her husband's face!
What this is...
(He cannot hide his smile.)
- Right now... - He thinks he's won.
I don't think her husband...
- has a two faced personality. - I know.
- I think so too. - If he's acting,
- he's an impressive actor. - What I think is...
Even your friend is saying he's a good man. What do you think?
- He pretends to be a gentleman. - Of course.
- He's pretending? - Yes.
- He pretends to adore our daughter. - Pretends?
When our child gets hurt while playing outside,
- he goes to her... - Does he run up to her?
He sprints and pretends he is really worried.
He makes a big deal out of it and asks, "Where did you get hurt?"
When the child gets hurt while playing at home,
he says, "I told you not to run in the house. Why did you run?"
He gets annoyed at our daughter. Then she starts crying.
- He also acts differently to her? - Yes.
- The defendant may now speak. - Well...
If a girl...
- gets hurt while playing outside... - Yes?
the injury could be serious. She could get a cut on her face.
That's why I'm more alarmed when she gets hurt outside.
If she gets hurt at home,
the injury wouldn't be serious.
That's why I don't worry as much about her at home.
- This is so strange. - But...
- What's going on? - It feels strange.
Do you know what your wife said?
"He's so convincing. This is infuriating."
(Am I going to lose this battle?)
- We should ask their daughter. - He sounds so convincing.
Children don't lie.
- Hello. - She's so cute.
- Hello. - Hello.
What is your name?
My name is Mok Ye Dam.
- Sorry? - Mok Ye...
- A mosquito net? - Mok Ye Dam.
- Mok Ye Dam.
- Mok Ye Dam? - Mok Ye Dam.
- Ye Dam. - Yes?
Does your dad play with you often?
No.
- What? - No?
- This is great! - Yes.
(Are we finally going to see his true self?)
- This is great! - Yes.
This is good!
- Your dad doesn't play with you? - No, he doesn't.
- Then... - She didn't hesitate at all.
when there are no guests at home,
does your dad help out your mum?
- When we have guests? - No, when there are no guests.
He doesn't help her.
- What? - When other people...
Are we seeing the man behind the mask?
- When other people... - The truth is being revealed.
Then...
Ye Dam, does he help your mum a lot when there are other people?
- Yes. - But...
he doesn't play with you when you two are alone?
No, he doesn't.
You two faced horrible man!
- Yes, it is very clear now. - We see who you are!
Do your parents have a good relationship?
I don't think they're close to each other.
- You don't think they're close. - Gosh.
- Whose fault do you think it is? - That's sad.
I have no idea.
She's so cute!
- She's so cute! - What a clever girl.
She chooses to stay in the middle.
- She's smart. - How does your dad treat your mum?
Let's say Dad's home after work.
- They start arguing. - They argue?
Yes. When he comes home, he doesn't even say,
- "Honey, I'm home!" - Yes?
He just starts arguing.
You mean he starts yelling as soon as he enters the house?
- That sounds awkward. - According to your daughter's...
testimony, you've been...
lying to everyone.
If she's right, you're a good actor.
- Yes. - Yes, this is serious now.
I don't know what made her think that.
This is very...
- You feel a bit frustrated, right? - Your expression says,
"I'm starting to lose their support."
Yes, you've got more to explain now.
(She has been saved by her daughter!)
I have something to say.
She claims I change abruptly at home.
It's not me who changes abruptly.
It's my wife.
She seems to have a hard time controlling her anger.
- She has a lot of anger? - Inside of her?
- Yes. - Okay.
I mean I get stressed out too when she takes her anger out on me.
- That's possible. - Do you tend to speak angrily?
You might not have noticed though. Can you show us how you talk?
Let's eat.
Do you talk with a smile?
Well,
I can't smile once I see his face.
- I noticed you were making a face. - I noticed that too.
Actually it doesn't matter if you talk nicely first.
- But it's necessary... - Yes.
to understand what has made her so angry.
It can be very stressful if people keep telling you...
that you have problems.
- That's what makes people change. - Right.
The most awful part is when...
your mother-in-law misunderstands you.
- Does this happen to you? - Yes.
- When this happens... - I understand the feeling.
This can lead to an escalation in tension between...
- mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. - You're right.
Do you have any conflicts with your mother-in-law?
There are, of course. When we were newly married,
we had to go and cut the grass for my father-in-law's grave.
- You went to cut the grass. - Yes.
And my husband told me that he had...
explained everything to his mum.
And he told me that I didn't have to go.
So, I trusted him and stayed at home.
But he told my mother-in-law, I wanted to...
rest at home since I felt tired.
- He made it worse. - She scolded you.
- Yes, it was quite intense. - I see.
- Wait a minute. Let me ask him. - It's possible.
Why did you do that?
Well, it's not like I had been married before.
- That's true for most people. - So I didn't know...
- what I was doing back then. - We all make mistakes.
But now, even when we buy gifts for my mother, I tell my mum...
"My wife bought it for you. I don't know..."
- "what she got. What is it?" - Oh, I see.
I do make more effort to mend their relationship.
Yes, we all make mistakes at the beginning of marriage.
You said that you want to reveal your husband's true personality,
I want to ask you what you want to reveal the most.
I had post natal depression.
- I see. - I heard Chan Woo depression.
And one day, I was watching a television programme about...
- post natal depression. - I see.
I could sympathise with what they were going through.
So I told my husband, "I think I am depressed too."
- That's possible. - But when I told him that,
he said "That's not it."
"It's your attitude. That's why you feel depressed."
- He told me he thinks differently. - Oh, goodness.
That's how he reacted to my depression.
That's not what I wanted to hear.
He could have just said, "You're going through a lot."
- Or "I will help you out more." - You wanted to be comforted.
Yes, all I wanted from him was words of support.
But after I saw how he reacted. I felt like I couldn't breathe.
- That can hurt, of course. - Yes.
She's right about what I said.
I could have said, "You're going..."
"through a lot. I'm sorry. It's all my fault."
I admit that will make her feel better.
- But that's what she wanted. - But I try to find...
- ways for her to overcome it. - Okay.
- Yes. That's what happened. - You find solutions for her.
You are very convincing.
- He talks so well. - Yes. He knows how to talk.
- He escapes like a mud fish. - I know, right?
What is he like after he drinks?
- You said he drinks a lot. - It's a nightmare.
- Does he have any bad habits? - He doesn't seem like the type!
- He has duplicity. - When he drinks,
- he vomits in our room. - What?
He once left his pay cheque in a cab.
He went to a police station several times because he slept in a cab.
People around you must know about this, right?
They know how he changes when he's drunk.
- People don't believe it. - They don't believe you?
- He doesn't seem like that. - Even my parent's don't buy it.
- They don't? - Why?
- Well, he's good. - When I told my grandmother...
Does she say, "Shut up!"
- "He's a nice husband!", like this? - No, not like that.
What kind of grandmother would tell her granddaughter to shut up?
I've watched too many period dramas.
I'm a huge fan of "Jang Yeong Sil" these days.
- Oh, dear. - A grandmother wouldn't say that.
It'll be funny if she really told her granddaughter to shut up.
What did your grandmother tell you though?
She says, "There's nothing wrong with a man going out for a drink."
And she adds that he's one of a kind.
- She's right about that. - She told her how good he is.
There's no one like him.
Did she tell the truth? Is it true that...
you vomit in your room and...
go to police stations and so on when you're drunk?
She said it happens often.
Let me explain.
- It's true. But... - But?
let me tell you why that happened.
- There is always a reason. - You always have excuses.
- You know she cleaned up your mess. - He's like that.
- He always has a reason. - On that night,
I didn't black out and start vomiting everywhere.
I was listening to her nagging...
and more nagging.
(I threw up after her nagging.)
- You threw up due to her nagging. - I was...
- going to go to the toilet. - You just threw up like this.
That happened before.
These days, I don't drink that much.
- I take care of myself better now. - I see.
Do you think that...
he's making efforts? He's cutting down on drinking.
Well, he let me down once already. It's hard to trust him again.
Let me tell you what happened last year.
- What happened? - On that day,
he came home drunk again.
My husband's real problem is that, when he comes home drunk,
he can't go to work the next day.
- What? - He doesn't go to work?
It does affect his daily life.
He's so drunk that he can't even answer the call from work.
So we were arguing on that day.
I said that I couldn't put up with him anymore and wanted a divorce.
I said, "I want a divorce. I can't live like this anymore."
- Okay. - And he agreed.
So we both signed on the divorce papers.
- Okay. - And then...
he just disappeared for a week after that.
I didn't hear from him for a week.
- Did he really? - Yes.
He just disappeared without any notice.
Well, it was hard for me too.
At that time, one of my closest friends died from an accident.
- We worked in the same industry. - I see.
He struggled to live his life to the best of his abilities.
And I felt that I was in a similar situation.
So I agreed to take a break.
In Korea, even if...
you signed the paper, it doesn't...
mean you're divorced right away.
- Yes. - So I wanted to think about...
- our problems. - You wanted some time to think.
Yes, it was already getting out of hand.
Well, you're saying that you disappeared...
to come up with a solution to your problems,
but that's not a solution.
You were being irresponsible.
You have to work it out together.
That's right. And I can tell she seems to be suffering a lot.
What do you do when you feel that way?
I just cry.
(She cries her sorrow away.)
It brings you to tears because you can't do anything about this.
- I'm surprised. - I heard that her daughter...
comes up to her and tells her...
to divorce him when she's crying.
- I don't believe you. - She said it.
I was in tears one day.
She came out of her room and asked me,
"Mum, why are you crying?"
She told me not to cry.
So I told her I won't cry. Then she said,
"Mum, if this is too much for you, just split up with Dad."
She said that to me.
(I didn't expect to hear that from my daughter.)
Ye Dam...
is a bit embarrassed now.
I think she's saying, "Mum, that was our secret."
I think so too.
"Mum, you can't say that here."
What breaks my heart is the fact that...
- Ye Dam understands this emotion. - She knows.
- She feels the emotion too. - You're right.
When I was listening to her, I couldn't...
help but look at Ye Dam to check if she's okay.
Because when parents talk about things like this,
- it can be a shock to their kids. - I was worried too.
I was watching her,
but she seemed to understand everything.
It seems like she had experienced a lot at her age.
She was very calmly listening to her parents.
It breaks my heart.
That means they argued a lot in front of their daughter.
(It makes her worry that her daughter has matured so early.)
Shall we share what you want from each other?
What do you want from him?
When we go somewhere, it's either him...
who walks in front.
Or I walk ahead.
We don't walk together.
- Oh, goodness. - But his friends always...
walk and put their arms around their wives' shoulders.
- They hold hands. - Yes, they walk hand in hand.
I envy them a lot.
What she wants from you isn't that big.
It's a small thing actually.
What about you? Do you have anything you want from your wife?
It's not like I was always cold to her.
But when I tell her "I'm sorry. You have made so much effort",
what I hear from her is,
"Then come home early if you know it already."
She talks to me like this.
So the opportunities for me to say something nice gradually...
disappear. That's the thought that crossed my mind.
We weren't like this at the start of our marriage.
After I heard both sides,
I think she does tend to say things that are hurtful.
And when I hear her husband's story,
he always makes excuses.
- He does. - Yes.
- He could just say he was wrong. - I agree.
But you also keep adding...
- oil to the fire. - That's right.
And you ended up saying it's not your fault because of this and that.
You add something more after you apologise.
- And... - He has a gesture he always does.
- A gesture? - Yes. He sits like this first.
He sits as if he's a teacher.
Yes, he talks as if a teacher scolds his student.
He points out my fault and criticises me. He tells me...
- what to fix about myself. - That would be infuriating.
So both of you...
want to hear words of encouragement from one another.
- From each other, right? - Yes, that's right.
I can see that too.
So,
do you think you can say something nice to each other?
You need to look at each other first though.
Look into each others' eyes first.
Remember that you married each other out of love.
- He made a good point! - How long has it been?
How long has it been?
- When was the last time? - It's been more than a month.
- Since they looked at each other.
- Look her in the eye. - And smile.
(To his wife)
- Their daughter looks happy too... - How do you usually call your wife?
even though she doesn't really understand the situation.
- You're right. - She's happy for her mum and dad.
She's happy that they're looking at each other.
Please say something.
You gave me two beautiful children.
I know that you were depressed...
and that it's been hard for you.
I'm sorry I didn't help you out a lot but...
You should leave out "But" and just say "I'm sorry."
Don't add "But".
I'm sorry.
But all I care about is my family.
I want you to trust me.
I only care about you and our kids...
and you're the only one that I love.
I mean it.
(Please trust me.)
Ye Dam.
Do you want to say something to your mum and dad?
- No. - No?
- You don't? - No, there's nothing I want to say.
Your mum and dad...
(Their daughter is moved to tears.)
said "I love you" to each other.
Will you say something?
- To Mum and Dad. - Mum and Dad, please don't fight.
(Please don't fight.)
How do you feel when they fight?
- I feel sad. - You feel sad.
- Don't make her sad. - You shouldn't make her sad.
Let's decide if it's a concern or not.
It seemed like a concern at first.
But hopefully, it isn't one any longer.
- Hopefully. - Yes.
- I see. - Okay.
- What about you, Jong Seo? - I also hope it isn't a concern.
What they need seems to be...
conversations.
They need to talk...
to find out what their spouse is unhappy about...
and what needs to be changed.
So from today,
I hope they'll start communicating more with each other.
- Hye Jeong. - I also think...
it isn't a concern any longer.
- I don't think it's a concern. - Okay.
As always, taking each other for granted...
is the source of most problems in relationships.
I hope your relationship will get better from today.
If you think this is a concern,
please push the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2 and 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2 and 1.
- Stop. - We now have the results.
I wonder how many people voted. Show us the result!
(The result)
Many people seemed to have voted. The number ends with five.
I bet it's over 100.
- 95. - 95.
Okay.
Thank you.
Hello, hello.
(What?)
Do you know what this sound is for?
- It was cute. - It's time for "Hello News".
(The new segment, "Hello News")
Many of the people who have been on Hello...
have gone through positive changes.
Let's see how they're doing these days.
- Okay. - Good.
- Who is it? - Some of you will recognise him.
- It's Dae Ho. - It's Dae Ho.
(It's Dae Ho.)
His mum was addicted to computer games.
My name is Choi Dae Ho and I'm in sixth grade.
My mum plays computer games all day long.
I can't stop playing the game.
She smokes while playing games.
My friends tease me for smelling like cigarettes.
(Oh, my.)
(Dae Ho's mum was too busy playing games to look after him.)
("Hello News")
(His mum and Dae Ho seem to be a lot closer now.)
After being on Hello,
she cooks a lot for me...
- and she's gotten a lot better. - Thank you for saying that.
Dae Ho seems to have put on weight.
(Dae Ho seems to have put on weight.)
Listening to Dae Ho,
- I felt sorry. - You should.
That's why...
I changed.
(Dae Ho's mum was reborn as a good mother.)
They look so happy. I'm happy for them.
(After grocery shopping)
- She's cooking. - She's in the kitchen.
- She didn't cook before. - Dae Ho had to cook.
Wow.
Dae Ho used to make fried rice by himself.
Their apartment used to be messy too.
- The situation has been reversed. - I'm not playing games anymore...
- but now you're playing. - Dae Ho is playing games now.
- It looks amazing. - Is it bulgogi?
- Wow. - That looks lovely.
- Dae Ho, don't eat too much. - You've gotten even bigger now.
(There's so much laughter around the table.)
She doesn't smoke around us any longer...
and the apartment is a lot cleaner now.
The air has become so fresh.
That's how it used to look.
She was always playing games lying down.
- The house has changed. - It's great.
I eat with my kids as much as I can these days.
Before, I went back to playing games as soon as I was done with cooking.
(She's not addicted to computer games any longer.)
- She must feel sorry. - That's right.
(After doing the dishes,)
(is she playing computer games?)
What are you doing?
I got into a university.
- A university? - A university?
I'm checking their website...
to find out what I should prepare.
I'll be majoring in Early Childhood Education.
- I want to applaud her. - After being on Hello,
I've become a lot closer to my kids.
But I don't fully understand a child's psyche.
- I need to learn more. - That's great.
- That's why I wanted to study. - She's trying to be a better Mum.
She found her path.
(What changes has Dae Ho gone through?)
He wants me to buy him a camera for his show.
- He's hosting his own show. - On the internet.
Today, I'm going to make a tortilla pizza.
(He's so cute.)
- It's a cooking show. - It is.
- There're many kids like him. - Right.
Dae Ho, it's working.
(Mum is excited to see her son on his show.)
Wow.
- Did he make that? - He's good.
(He's quite good.)
(Happy)
They seem to be having so much fun.
- He's so cute. - They look so happy.
Good luck.
(Dae Ho might become a famous host.)
- All right. - Okay.
- Wow. - It's a miracle!
Wow.
We should say hi to them.
Let's hear from them.
Dae Ho.
- Hi. - Hi.
- Hi, Dae Ho. - Dae Ho, are you happy?
I've never been happier in my life.
He's never been happier in his life.
Dae Ho, you said you had a crush on a girl last time.
How did it go?
- Her name is Kwon Soo Jeong. - What?
- Her name is Kwon Soo Jeong. - Look at you.
I'm dying to know.
(He suddenly looks sad.)
(He's suddenly become quiet.)
(Dae Ho's crush didn't work out.)
A lot has changed, right?
- It really has. - Right.
Is there anything we can do for you?
Is there anything we can do right here?
We can say "I love you."
It's okay.
We can do that, too.
(You don't want it?)
You should come on "Cultwo"...
- the radio show sometime. - Sure.
We'll invite you to our performances too.
- Thank you. We'll be there. - Okay.
I hope you'll become even happier.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
Thank you.
(You'll hear many more touching stories on "Hello News".)
"Car Enthusiast".
Hello, I'm a man in my 20s living in Seoul.
I want to complain...
about my best friend.
- His best friend? - He keeps saying,
- "What do you think of her?" - Is it about girls?
- "Isn't she gorgeous?" - Listen to him.
"Her name is Eun Bi. Look at her body?"
My friend is talking about his car.
- He names his cars? - Exactly.
- A car is called "Eun Bi"? - Although all men are interested...
- in cars, he's taken it too far. - I think so, too.
Once, I was stressed about work.
"I messed up at work today. Let's go for a drive."
"Be quiet for a moment."
"I think I hear..."
- "Eun Bi crying." - Eun Bi.
"Hey, don't be ridiculous."
- "I'm so stressed." - "Be quiet!"
"Eun Bi, aren't you feeling well? Are you okay?"
He only cares about cars.
He doesn't care about his friends.
But there's a bigger problem.
"This is my new girlfriend,"
"Geom Bi."
- What? - Geom Bi?
- How many cars does he have? - "What happened to Eun Bi?"
"I'm fed up with her."
"Geom Bi's my everything."
A few weeks later,
- "Meet Popo." - Popo?
After a few weeks, "Meet Dark Horse."
- "This one is called Puma." - He must be wealthy.
- For the past four years, - Every few weeks?
- he has changed cars 18 times. - This is ridiculous.
- What? - 18 cars in 4 years?
He's not even rich.
- He seems to be out of his mind. - Does he have a lot of money?
Please convince my friend to stop this insanity.
(Please talk to my friend about this.)
He must be wealthy.
- 18 cars in 4 years? - That's...
A lot of men love cars...
but it's rarely this bad.
What is this?
Let's welcome him to the show.
(Let's meet the man who is worried about his car loving friend.)
(Woo Joseph)
Hello
(He seems to be in a hurry.)
Please introduce yourself.
- You seem to be in a hurry. - Hello.
I'm Woo Joseph, 24 years old and I live in Seoul.
- Okay. - Joseph.
Your friend is only 24 years old and he had 18 cars?
- He got his license when he was 19. - Okay.
He has been changing cars...
ever since.
(It started when he was 19.)
- How can he afford it? - Are his parents rich?
- Look at that. - They're his cars.
(He has changed cars 18 times in 4 years.)
- He changed cars so many times. - Oh, my.
He changed so many of them.
(He had all these cars.)
One car looked like a taxi.
I thought it was a used car lot.
- It really does. - Is he a used car dealer?
What does he do for a living?
He's just an ordinary college student.
- A college student? - Then how can he afford it?
His parents are not supposed to know this...
but he took many semesters off so far.
- He took semesters off? - Sometimes one semester,
- sometimes more than two. - Oh, no.
His parents should know this.
Has he ever borrowed money from you?
That didn't happen. He never asked me.
- Then why are you worried? - Why do you care?
You don't quite understand.
When you meet him in person...
We really don't quite understand.
When you meet him,
he will only talk about cars.
(He only talks about cars.)
It stresses me out when I'm with him.
Let me give you an example. He called me once late at night...
and said that he needs to test out his car.
He forced me to go to Gangwon-do with him.
- In the middle of the night? - Yes.
There are a lot of unpaved roads.
He said he has to check the tire pressure.
He drives through rough terrain to test it.
- It must be a recreational vehicle. - That's right.
You would think avoiding him would solve the problem,
but I tried. Even if I tell him I have other commitments,
he calls again and calls my home.
- He is obsessed. - He really is.
- You must be his only friend. - I know.
He acts like a crazy person.
Why does he change cars so often?
- A car has four doors, right? - Yes.
It has four doors, right?
- But he says, "I don't like it." - What?
And buys a two doors car.
A few months ago,
he had a sports car which he bought about three weeks before.
He used it to go on a trip with a girl he went out for two weeks.
On their way back,
she said, "This car is too small."
- Because of that one sentence, - He changed the car?
he made up his mind in 20 minutes to get a new car.
- It was for his girlfriend. - He's unbelievable.
- He is like that. - My goodness.
Is it that inconvenient to ride a small car?
What were they doing in the car?
I wonder what they were doing in the car.
Over the course of four years,
his friend went through 18 cars, even though he is just a student.
Let's meet him.
Where are you? Hello.
Hello.
- He looks handsome. - I know. He is charming.
Then again, changing cars often doesn't necessarily make you ugly.
- His face looks like a car. - I can tell he likes cars.
Are the cars we saw earlier the ones you have owned?
Yes, they are the ones I have owned.
We will quickly go through each picture.
I want you to tell us about the model.
I didn't recognise any models from seeing them together.
That's a matiz.
Tiburon Turbulence.
Genesis Coupe.
Porte Coupe.
- Genesis Coupe. - It's a tuned car.
- Porte Coupe. - He had that car before.
- Genesis Coupe. - What?
BMW 328i.
- He is still in university. - Mercedes Benz C200.
Genesis Coupe.
- He likes Genesis. - i30.
K5.
They are my precious children.
- You sent them away. - Why do you keep replacing them?
- You have mistreated your children. - That's right.
- You keep replacing them. - I know.
(I hadn't considered that.)
Cars are very precious to me.
I once had a four doors sedan.
But driving it for a while,
I realised that four doors is excessive.
And I wanted a two doors car.
In that sense, all you need is a driver's seat.
Yes, that's right.
When I have a convertible,
I want to buy a non-convertible.
What was the shortest time it took you to replace a car?
- Three days. - What?
Was it a rental car?
- It was like a rental car. - That's unbelievable.
My goodness.
Did you sell it after three days?
I bragged about the new car in front of my friends.
The car was orange.
As soon as my friends saw it,
- they said it looks like a cab. - I see.
(People would try to wave it down.)
- Cabs are orange. - They said it looks like a cab.
And when we went to a busy street...
Did people try to wave it down?
People thought it was a cab...
and knocked on the window.
They tried to wave the car down.
After that I didn't want to drive it, so I sold it soon afterwards.
People must have yelled, "What a rude cab driver."
Seriously.
What was the longest time you had a car?
- Five and a half months. - Five and a half months?
It was Genesis Coupe.
- What did you name it? - Sky Baby.
- Sky Baby? - Sky Baby.
I guess it flew into the sky.
(Please come to your senses.)
I realised that four doors are excessive.
I also wanted to buy a convertible.
(He changed cars many times.)
He had a foreign car that costs 50,000 to 60,000 dollars.
I worked 15 hours a day at a convenience store...
to pay for the difference.
To be honest,
there is something I haven't told my parents.
I used the money my parents gave me for tuition.
- You used your tuition money? - What?
- He is incorrigible. - I used the money to buy a car.
He is going get into a lot of trouble when they find out.
And your parents have no idea?
(His lips are dry.)
No, they don't know.
How can they not know when you're changing cars all the time?
I always park my car in the underground parking garage.
So my parents didn't have the opportunity to see it.
You look very nervous at the moment.
- He has a lot of secrets. - He is afraid they will find out.
- He knows he is in trouble. - If they see this...
That's what you are worried about, right?
- What should he do? - I have an idea.
- Send them a video message. Okay.
- There is the camera. - Look at the camera.
Hello mother.
- My goodness. - I...
took a leave of absence from university...
and lied to you about going to classes.
And I spent the money you gave me for tuition...
to good use.
- He said, "To good use." - "To good use."
- I used it for a good purpose. - It's not like you donated it.
Please forgive me.
(Your parents are going to kill you.)
What is your major?
- It's... - Is it related to cars?
No, I major in dance.
- Dance? - My goodness.
- What did he say? - Dance.
- Dance? - My goodness.
- What did he say? - Dance.
- Yes, I major in dance. - You don't look like a dance major.
- I couldn't have imagined it. - Seriously.
- Does he dance about cars? - Is he majoring in modern dance?
- Ballet. - Ballet?
(He is a ballerino.)
I don't mean to be rude,
- but it's hard to believe. - You're not kidding?
Could you perform for us a little?
- Actually, I... - Just a bit.
(Clapping)
Actually, I am not a good dancer.
That's because you took time off from school.
I only decided to major in it...
because my parents are dancers.
We aren't trying to judge your dance skills.
- You must know the basics. - Just show us your hand gestures.
Show us the basic postures.
- A basic posture? - Something like this.
- Give us the posture. - Ballet posture.
- Okay.
- Ballet posture. - They have a grand posture.
- Show us. - I am holding the microphone.
- The microphone? - You can put it down.
- I will help you. - Put the microphone down.
- No, it's okay.
- Let me help you.
- Show us the ballet posture. - Maybe he doesn't know anything.
Go on.
- It's a natural posture. - A natural posture.
- Go on. - It doesn't look natural.
It doesn't look natural. Your posture looks awkward.
- Relax your body. - Relax your body.
And feel the rhythm of the music.
Move your body to the rhythm.
- My goodness. - To all students.
If you are a student watching the show, keep this in mind.
That's what happens if you secretly take a leave of absence from school.
(Don't secretly take a leave of absence from school.)
All right.
He took time off from the first semester of his freshman year.
- From the first semester? - Did you really do that?
- Did he really do that? - Didn't he have exams?
For how many semesters have you attended?
Two semesters.
(He has only finished two semesters.)
- He only took the required courses. - He only took the required courses.
- He didn't take ballet courses. - That's why he can't dance.
What do you want to be in the future?
I would like to be...
- a police officer. - What?
What does it have to do with your major?
- A police officer? - Do you want to drive a police car?
I want to become a police officer...
and customise my police car.
- Seriously? - You want to tune a police car.
To catch criminals faster,
I will attach a turbocharged engine to a police car.
- You want to tune a police car. - That's right.
To help people see the police car better in the dark,
I will attach an HID lamp.
So that it will be brighter.
I also want to attach a bumper that minimises the trauma...
like the ones police cars in the United States has.
That sounds cool.
Are you preparing to become a police officer?
- I know. - He is learning ballet.
I am studying by myself.
Really? Is he speaking the truth?
- Does he study? - I have never seen him study,
but he says he studies. So I'm not going to refute it.
I personally have never seen it.
Do you give advice when your friends are about to buy a car?
Yes, I do.
Tell me which car would suit a rocker like me.
How much are you willing to spend?
- My goodness. - He has turned into a car dealer.
- He just met a customer. - What's your price range?
(He recommends a cute box shaped car to a rocker.)
Would that suit a rocker?
It would be convenient to store guitars and other equipment...
- in that car. - It has a large storage space.
Does it?
Which car should someone with a big head get?
(He recommends the same model.)
- It has a high ceiling. - That's right.
Which car should someone with a fat belly get?
(Why do you even ask?)
(Is he really a car expert?)
- All right. - After listening to him,
I can't figure out if he is a car expert...
or he doesn't know anything.
Any man who likes cars would know that much.
When he was on the phone with the production team,
he told them that he can tell the model of a car...
- just by looking at the head lamps. - That's pretty impressive.
The production team prepared a test.
I want to become a police officer...
and customise the police car.
(Can he correctly guess the model of a car by the head lamps?)
(Don't be surprised.)
Give us the pictures.
(The first question)
- What is that? - What is the model?
- What is it? - That's a hard one.
- He doesn't know. - It seems like he doesn't know.
He is stuck and it's only the first question.
- What is the model? - Give us the answer.
If you really don't know, yell, "I don't know."
I don't know.
- My goodness. - Isn't it Matiz?
- Jong Seo knows the answer. - Isn't it a Matiz?
- Jong Seo. - Is it a MINI Cooper?
- Matiz? - MINI Cooper?
- Matiz. Tiburon.
I think it's MINI Cooper.
Let's see the answer.
(MINI Cooper)
- Jong Seo got it right. - That's right.
He said he didn't know, and went with Jong Seo's answer.
Give us the next question.
It's LF Sonata.
- LF Sonata released in 2014. - LF Sonata?
It's a relatively new model.
He gave us a detailed answer.
That was a detailed answer.
If he's right that would be impressive.
- Did he get it right? - Yes.
He got it right. Next.
- How can he... - They all look the same.
It's the new model of Genesis Coupe.
- I will reveal the answer. - It's the New Genesis Coupe.
- He's right. - He's right.
- This is fun. - Yes.
- Give us some more. - Next.
What's next?
- It must be BMW's five series. - Five series?
Is it different for the 5 series and the 7 series?
He's right.
- They are all different? - I never knew that.
- He's amazing. - There are two pictures left.
(He's nervous again.)
Is it Sonata?
I've never seen this before.
It looks like K series.
Am I wrong?
(The audience is busy guessing too.)
Everyone is guessing.
You should guess.
- Some people say it's K9. - Isn't it fun?
Does anyone know?
- K7. - K7?
- Someone said it's K7. - K7?
I think so too.
- He thinks so too. - You think so too?
- What's the answer? - It's the new K7.
- Yes. - Some people know well.
- Let's do one more. - Okay.
- What's that? - Oh...
- It's tough. - Samsung's...
- Is there anyone... - Anyone?
- Pride. - It's Pride?
- It looks like the new Pride. - The new Pride?
Oh.
I think it's Sportage.
It's the new Pride versus Sportage.
- Which one has the answer? - It's actually nerve wrecking.
- What? - They're wrong.
They are both wrong.
(Why did we get nervous for?)
(He seems like he's not that talented.)
By the way...
- Yes. - He can't believe it either.
When men are young,
they do those things to appeal to women.
I learned to play guitar when I was younger...
to appeal to women.
- We all do that. - Right.
Did you start changing cars for that reason?
- Did you want to show off? - I had a first love.
But she...
went on a trip with a guy who has a car.
She went on a trip with the guy who has a car.
- She did that while dating you? - From that...
I realised...
that I can easily win people's hearts when I have a car.
- That's what I felt. - It's understandable.
So you keep changing cars...
to win more girls' hearts?
- Probably. - It's part of the reason.
I can't control girls the way I want,
but I can decorate cars however I want to.
It's my only friend.
That's why it turned out like that.
Are all women like that?
- What do you think? - Even if a guy doesn't have...
a car, I would just grab his hands and go on a date.
- So... - But it would be nice if he had.
- Yes. - He can give you a ride home.
Of course.
It's going to be comfortable.
It's cold outside.
By the way, then did he have a lot of girlfriends too?
He had a lot of girlfriends. He changed his girlfriends more often.
- What? - He was lying.
He had more than 18 girlfriends?
- So he... - He dated so many girls.
Why did you date so many girls?
Cars...
- By the way... - You said you can't control women.
Did all the girls leave you then?
You got dumped in the car.
(He smiles awkwardly.)
Excuse me.
(Say something.)
Please say something.
- That must have happened. - That must have happened.
We were just joking and it must have really happened.
Let's take some rest.
- What? - Let's take some rest.
- What? - Take some rest?
Yes.
Why do we have to take some rest?
- You want to take a break? - Let's take a break.
Let's take a break.
- Take a break. - How can we take a break?
- Wait. - How can we take a break?
- All right. - All right.
We won't ask you how many girls you met.
When you had the car,
did you date many girlfriends too?
In the past 4 years, I had about 20 girlfriends.
That's worse than the cars.
Do you think it's because of...
the cars?
I think that's...
- part of it. - He knows it.
How long was your shortest relationship?
I once dated a girl for about two days.
- That's worse than the car. - Gosh,
that's shorter than the time he spends with one car.
- I know. - That's...
(What wrong with this guy?)
Do you have a girlfriend now?
- Yes, I do. - She's the one who said...
How about you? Do you have a girlfriend?
- I don't have one. - Maybe it's because of a car.
- Do you have a car? - Perhaps he needs a car.
Because of him,
I bought one a month ago.
He asked me to buy a two doors sports car.
He pestered me for three weeks. He said...
I can meet a more beautiful girl if I buy the car.
- That's what he told me. - He's...
a bit obsessed.
You said he's going to have a beautiful girlfriend...
if he gets the car?
The car has an impact,
but Joseph is about 2 percent lacking.
- Is that right? - Yes.
- I'm taller than him, and... - Girls like him more.
He's handsome.
Perhaps because he did ballet for a semester,
- he has a fit body. - It could have been better.
It looks like his friends are here.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
(Nice to meet you.)
Have you bought a car because he said...
you could date a beautiful girl?
He forced me to buy one.
- So do you have a girlfriend? - No.
All his friends listen to him.
Why do you think he still doesn't have a girlfriend?
The car needs a bit of tuning to look complete.
But I did.
You did what he told you?
He told me to install a better audio system, so I did.
But girls said it was too loud and told me to turn it off.
- They told you to turn it off? - Yes.
How about the one next to you? Did you buy a car too?
I am not good at manual driving.
But he told me he'd teach me, so I bought it.
He didn't teach me after he sold it to me.
And the audio was broken,
so I had to spend money.
I think he was trying to get rid of it.
- He dumped his old cars. - He sells his old cars...
to his friends.
I am really nice to my friends.
Whenever they want to go for a drive,
I take them to Busan, Sokcho and Yangpyeong.
I take them everywhere.
I drive for them,
and I care a great deal about them. I would never trick them.
He says he's very sweet to his friends.
- They look upset. - He takes you everywhere.
- That's not true. - It's not true?
He asks for a compensation for his service.
- What kind of compensation? - He asks us to pay for...
- gas, food and toll gate fare. - The toll gate fare.
One day, we went to Busan.
When you go to Busan, you go to a beach.
But he took us to Busan Motor Show. I wasn't interested at all.
I didn't understand why he took us there.
You are the one who likes going to Motor Shows.
I thought my friends would want to go there too.
- Did you want to go? - Why are you babbling?
- Not at all. - Not at all.
When was the time he made you feel really bad?
When did you think it was too much?
One time, I was driving behind him.
I was following his car from behind.
And suddenly I heard a lightning sound.
It turns out...
his car hit the crash barrier.
He dozed off while driving.
There were three friends inside his car,
and they were bleeding.
- Their heads were bleeding. - That's something serious.
Yes, but...
as soon as he got out,
he checked his car first.
And he took pictures of the car.
His parents don't know about this?
- They probably don't know. - They don't know.
- They must feel so sad. - Yes.
At the time, I doubted if he's really my friend.
- That's terrible. - Let's hear from him.
I think I unconsciously checked the car.
I hope he would understand...
that I didn't feel like that inside.
But your action already proved otherwise.
- He was very scared. - It was a reflex behaviour.
He automatically thought of the car first.
He names his cars. That's how much he cares for his cars.
He doesn't do anything else,
and he's only focused in the car.
As his friend, I am quite worried about his future.
I think it's time to think about things other than the car.
I am very much worried.
- Okay. - Are you not going back to school?
I will earn some more money...
to change my car and then go back to school.
(He will go back to school after earning more money.)
- You'll go back to school later? - Maybe he's not interested.
- The car comes first. - What if...
you want to buy another car?
Then you won't be able to go back to school again.
I think I should settle now.
By the way, I hope you will use this opportunity...
to plan your future.
You want to be a police officer,
but you are majoring in dance.
You say you are going to go back to school.
It looks like you haven't made up your mind.
He says it's his hobby, but...
it's not like collecting toy cars.
Right now, you can't see that,
but when your debt piles up and pressures you,
you won't be able to go for your dream.
Jo Kwon, you go first.
Is it something to worry about or not?
At first, I didn't think it was something to worry about.
But thinking about it now I think it's a worry.
This is a big worry.
He might not be able to achieve his dream because of it.
- Right? - I think it's a worry too.
- Chan Mi? - I think it's a worry.
I think he needs to settle things with his school.
Of course. It's like...
he's been stealing his parents' money.
Your dream is to drive a police car,
and you might ride the car as a criminal.
You should get back to your senses.
- Will you drive it or ride it? - Riding it doesn't feel nice.
(It doesn't feel nice.)
If you want to agree with him that this is a worry,
please press the button.
(What do the audience think?)
In 5, 4, 3,
and 2, 1.
Stop!
He's a very good friend.
Say something to your friend.
I really didn't realise my problem until now.
I think I should worry about my future.
Thank you for bringing me here.
I love you.
(I love you.)
He's cute.
He loves his friend.
Please reveal the result.
(The result is announced.)
What's the last digit?
- It's going to be over 100. - Yes.
I bet he will get 131 votes.
What's the result?
What's the score?
Wow, it's 131 votes!
(Eliminated)
"Lazybones" wins...
for the third time. Congratulations!
We will give you a 1,000 dollar gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.